Mark asks…

how to a get girl running back to u?

ok i want to get back a girl that once liked me… ok i broke it off for a legit reason.. n she said she undestood…noow the reason faded away… n i want her back.. but when i text her .. like…oh i miss u … or lets chill ..she doesnot respond…. need help getting her back… i dunt want critism ..just want ideas..thanks everyonee!…… i dunt live in same area… so cannot relly see her.. help me!!!

Jason answers:

Just tell her
that you really want her back
you would love to go out with her some time

or

go up to her one day and give her like an amazing kiss and she wont be able to resist you
propose something really mysterious – (sexual,a place to mee, something to do) and she kill be so curious she probs wont say no cuz she cant resist not knowing

good luck with her

Mandy asks…

How do u get a girl back?

I met this girl, and we instantly struck up an amazing friendship. It was working abroad so it was intense, and she struggled with homesickness etc, and i was always there.

I am always the nice guy, the guy girls say would be an amzing BF, but then say they wouldn’t date, cos i am too nice or whatever.

But too my amazment this girl wanted to be with me. She was really intense at really pushed the relationship, introduced me to her parents, and friends. Talk of things we’d do in the future, and even starting talking to my sister over the internet.

But when we got home, i had to go back abroad and we live 200 miles apart. So after like 4 weeks of not seeing her, i went and saw her. After the weekend she said there was no spark. And eventually we split up, and she said she had no feelings for me anymore, just friendship.

This girl, by her own admission has always dated jerks. And i feel she got a bit bored of me being a nice guy. But i can’t believe she has lost all her feelings for me, she said i restored her faith in men, I honestly think she still holds some feelings for me, but she paniced after we didn’t click straight off after coming home like she’d hoped. She was also upset ‘cos of the distance, and not being able to see my every night like she wanted too.
I don’t think she gave us a fair chance, and i think if she did we’d work.

But i am mad about this girl. We are both 21, and she was my first GF. She was the first girl i ever really connected with, and the first girl i ever spent any time alone with really. She was also the first girl i ever slept with.

She is amazing, and i honestly don’t think i guy like me could ever get a girl any where near her standard again. And i want to get her back.

We are still friends, and are going to a concert together next month, and i may stay at her house. I am also probably moving closer to her in september for studying.

I want her back, but i cannot hit on her or anything, as i will lose my friend. She says she has no feelings for me anymore, but i honestly think she has just convineced herself of that for some reason.

Jason answers:

Just continue to be yourself. Things willl get better after you spend more time with her and once your closer to her. When you go to the concert with her, dont try to flirt or anything like that, act like all you want out of her is a friendship. Once she notices that your not trying really hard to be her boyfriend, she will get jelous and become closer with you. Once you notice that she is becomming closer, slowly show her that you want to be her boyfried. Good luck! : )

Sandy asks…

Would u text a girl back if she kept her identity a secret?

alright so i have this crush on a guy from school. usually im really good when it comes to starting a conversation with a cute guy but this one is diffrent! He seems like the type of guy who’s quiet and reserved. like he doesnt really like talking to random ppl. plus in a way he intimidates me; i think its the seriousness of his face. Anyways hes so my type and i love how chill he is. and the fact that he intimidates me kinda draws me more to him. Okay so to my advantage his best friend happends to be a really good friend of mine. so one day i was going thro my friends phone and happened to see the guy that i like‘s number. I waited till summer came around to text him, so when i texted him i wanted to keep my identity withheld (for the simple fact that i didnt want things to be akward next yr if i saw him) so i texted him and he asked me who i was. i just gave him certain details like that we went to the same school and the grade i was in etc. but denied on giving my name.oddly enough he still kept on texting me. and even called me! i awnsered my phone but it was basically the same story as the text messages. Alright so then a week passes by and i didnt text again till the next week. he basically said if he new who i was he probably would talk to me. so i gave him my middle name ( and of course he didnt kno who i was) so i gave him my intials only. he was somewhat conformed. as we text for like 3 hours i got to kno him, i found out he was a pretty sweet person and when i told him how i wanted to talk to him last yr but didnt cause he intimidated me he was like ” really? im not that bad! im actually a pretty swell guy” so yea. the nxt day that i texted him he greeted me by my full name! i was shocked and asked how he knew who i was? apparently he looked up my initials in the yr book. i tried apoligizing to him for not tell him in the first place but he just said “im not mad” but in a way i sensed he was cause it took him like 1/2 hour to awnser back! (not like him) anyways as i told him i wouldnt text him anymore ( to avoid annoying him any further) he said ” im not mad! ” and we basically ended it on that note. alright so after a couple days after that happend i wanted to text bcak but i thought ; “what if he doesnt awnser back or wat if i seem im trying to hard” would it look desparet? so my question is should i text this guy back? if so who would u start off the text? plz write how in details?

Jason answers:

OMFG this sounds exactly like the situation i am in except the guy i like is a year younger than me and i texted him and told him who i was right away and i told him i liked him! Well for you it sounds like he might be pretty interested in you because he took the time to look you up and he said he wasn’t mad. I think you should text him and just be like hey whats up? And if he doesnt respond wait a little while and maybe text him again in a few weeks! Im scared to text the guy i like again for fear of being annoying or seeming desperate lol! But for you i think you should do it! Good luck hope this helped :)

Nancy asks…

How to know she likes you back…? Girls u would know, so help me plz..?

Alright well how do you know if a girl likes you back once youve told them you like them?
I told the girl i like that i liked her and her reaction was a real big smile and like looking mein the eyes. She didnt have time to say anything cause i was kinda said it just before i got up and left from practice.

Its been months since that and well i just havent asked her out, i really want to. We have a party this friday i intend to have fun with her at, so yeah.

But like what are the signs she may like me back? Like eyes? movements, the way she acts? My friend just said to ask her out, but i wanaa kinda make sure, cause ive had enough and am really going to ask her?
Please help me! If i could email some1 and like get in depth thatd be even better but thx if you at least answer!!!

Jason answers:

Well if u really like her then ask her out! Ya never know what she may say and I would go for it!

Richard asks…

It’s been few weeks… would you call this girl back even if it seems like she can’t find time for u anymore?

BEST ANSWER WILL GET 10 POINTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I need an answer. A good one too.

Okay firstly, she has two kids… one is 1, the other is 2. I didn’t want a relationship with her, but she sure WAS my fooling around partner, and she was attracted to me, had fun around me, and really liked my company, and I liked her too. But eventually we fell out on bad terms, she found a new boyfriend, and acted like she didn’t care at all to hear from me anymore. So I gave her what she wanted… I didn’t call her for NINE weeks! For nine weeks she didn’t hear from me or see me.

When I DID finally call, the same girl who acted like she didn’t care to hear from me anymore was wondering why I stopped checking for her, and she still wants me to call her to check on her and see how she’s doing, and there was that fun vibe and laughing and goodness between me and her again, as if that fire was still slightly burning. The good tension between us was still there. She still wants me to call her. She wants to hear from me.

But then I noticed a trend. I started to be the only one who was calling her. She wasn’t returning ANY of my calls, and I wasn’t even showing any neediness. She was saying we could go out, she just need to find a babysitter for the kids, but she was never able to. She said her cousin was off the island, and when she finally reached back, her cousin wud be out or doing something. Trying to go out with her was too hard. Boyfriend still on the scene.

Now, I ALWAYS try to keep in mind that she has two really bad children that keep her really busy, and a boyfriend now, but I still feel like she could find some kind of free time to call me, so when I saw she wasn’t calling me back, or I started to feel like I was just a little too much after her, I stopped calling her completely once again.

I haven’t called her in three weeks. I don’t have time for this. I have places to go and other people to see……………………………. but that doesn’t mean that she isn’t still always on my mind… and honestly, she was the first person to give me some real physical and intimate experiences… that boost of confidence, and I really miss the fooling around we did, but I don’t run behind ANYONE, even if she WAS the first.

Am I doing the right thing by never calling her again, or should I call her again?

Jason answers:

Why spend money on calls that are never returned? If she won’t call, why should you? If she ACTUALLY wanted to be with you again, she’d call, text or visit. She wants to be adored. She’s a woman, don’t call her and if she calls, explain why you won’t call. You shouldn’t need to go through all of this!

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