Your Questions About How To Get The Girl U Love To Fall In Love With U

HELP!!!!!!!! My and my bf are trying again but Can u fall back in love?

my boyfriend of nearly 5 years broke up with me the end of october saying he’s not in love with me any more, he’s felt like that for around 4 months prior to him breaking up with me and theres issues he’s had which he’s let build up 4 years rather than let me no. At the begining he said he didnt know what he wanted but then a few weeks later he said he could never see himself getting back with me, he said theres no point cos he doesn’t love me, (i think maybe because i pushed him and didn’t give him space and wanted an answer straight away if we could ever try again he flipped)

We have a house together so since october he went 2 stay at his dads for a week and ive been to my mums a few times for a couple of nights but the majority of the time we where still living at home together. At the very begining of the break for around 3 weeks we were still sharing the same bed.

About 2 weeks b4 xmas i came back from my mums after being there 2nights. He said he missed me and was lonely. From then we shared the same bed again. He wasn’t really comfortable with to many hugs and there was no kissing because he said it felt weird as he doesn’t have any feeling for me so it wa just sex but i didnt mention nething about a relationship because i didnt want to put pressure on and he was really confused about his feelings and what he should do (he still is confused). Him and my mum have a close relationship so he was coming to spend xmas with us. I was goin to stay at my mums again xmas week but he said he didn’t want me to go so i stayed. xmas was good and we still hugged and sat together like a couple. The week after xmas i looked at his facebook and there where these stupid hugs with messages attached and he chose one that said true love to a girl at his work, she’s also blocked me on facebook which i think is strange. I confronted him and he said it didn;t mean anything and he doesn’t know why he sent it. I said as much as i loved spending all this time with him i can’t carry on how we are, getting my hopes up we’ve still got a chance to get back together when he may never have any intention to, so the next day i went back to my mums.

On new years eve i asked if we could spend the day together and he kept saying he doesn’t know (which is his response to everything). I said i needed to know soon so i can get ready etc. he said he was busy and i always ask 2 many questions n put the fone down. later he picked me up 2 go to the shops and he was screaming at me about i always go on at him and ask questions all the time and that he did intend to spend the day with me. I said if he knew he was goin why couldn’t he just say that but he wasn’t sure what time. He was just going mad calling me a bitch(which is one word i hate) and I was in tears and sobbing and then he dropped me of on the main road and made me walk home. So i obviously thought that was it.

He went out with his mates new years eve and around half 11pm he texted me saying sorry for 2day and a happy new year and ringing me and this was about 2 hours or speaking and texting. Even when were together he would never ring or text me when he was out with his mates. The next day we were due to see each other at my grans for dinner. When he came he asked me for a hug and later we went upstairs and he kissed me which was the 1st time in about 5 months. That night i decided to still go back to my mums because i didnt want to be in the same situation as last time, us sleeping together but not in a relationship. I know he’s been really confused but it felt like everything had to go his way. That night he rang me and we spoke for hours talking about everything that he’s had bottled up over the years and that he’s missed me when i’ve not been there and that he thinks he wants to try again. i said we should have a talk about everything as i’ve had a lot of issue and questions with him and i have a habit of bringing up the past. We spent a few hours together in the day and then he came back up at the night and we both stayed at my mums house. The next morning i asked him if we get back together will he delete the girl from his work off facebook and he said no. So i asked him does she mean more than our relationship so he got his stuff and went and i knew that i’d screwed up again. I rang him and he told me to leave him lone and put the fone down. Luckily my mum rang him and persuaded him to come back and to have our talk that day and she’ll be there to be the middle person. We did and talked about everything and we both agreed to leave everything in the past and start afresh. He wanted to start again slowly and i wasn’t sure about coming back home yet but my mum said theres no point startin slow like a couple that are only just starting to date as we’ve been together the majority of the time when we weren;t in a relationship and still been sleeping together so we should start again as a proper couple. We went home and things where good. He w

How can u love a girl that has a boyfriend please help!?

hey im 16 years old and i think im in love with a girl in my summer theatre program…. she originally invited me to join the program so i figured i’d do it so i would have something productive to do for my summer…. since i started my stomach has been killing me everyday every hour… i figured it was anxiety or stage fright. but i got to know this girl alot more and im falling for her against my will lol…. only problem is she has a boyfriend which she likes very much…. i had a thing for her since my freshman year (im a senior now) but now im really getting feelings… do i tell her? im nervous ill get rejected and then our friendship is awkward from there on… do i just fight the feelings? sorry this is long lol but i wanna be detailed… shes so perfect and shes very nice to me i must have her!!

How do i get my ex to fall in love with me again?

*i posted this last nite but got very few reponces so just 2 get sum more opinions:*

Ok, so: i have an ex girlfriend, who i have a kid with (a boy, n hes now 1 n since her ive seen a couple of girls n had a relatoinship but never really stopped loving the 1st girl. Me n the other girl split up n have since seen another girl briefly n am now over the other one n just want 2 focus on getting back together with the girl who i have a kid with and get my ‘family back. …but i dont know how she feels about me and she just got out of a relationship, too n i dont wana catch her on the rebound, but i dont want 2 wait too long, in case she hooks up with sum1 else and i miss my chance. :/…so A: do i tell her how i feel? B: WHEN do i tell her how i feel? n C(*question mainly 4 girls:*) if you were that girl, then what u love 4 the guy 2 do that would completely sweep u off your feet n make u fall in love with him again?

i think i love this girl and like her friend HELP?????

hey i posted a question like this a couple of days ago but it got messed up some how so here it is again

k I’ll try to make this as short as i can,
two years ago i liked this girl, like a lot, and i never made a move because of her rep. her rep is a girl that went to cheerleading camp and screwed all the guys there ( there were like 5), and at school she had a BF for no more than a week ( cus she supposedly cheated). she really liked me and i really liked her, but i was to nervous and i was just not willing to take that chance for a long time. but then stupidly i said i love u over a text, then i saw her at the seniors graduation and never said a thing, then went through the summer grounded ( long story ) and never saw her or anyone, then at school the next year (still grounded for a wile) i asked her out over a text again. i know that is stupid and everything but i needed to tell her, but she was seeing someone and i didnt know she was, ( that sucked) but then they broke up in a week and a week later she dated this other guy then a week later they broke up, so yea now u get why i didnt ask her out b4, so after hearing all that i was telling myself to move on, it took like 3-4 months but i did, well i thought i did

i then started to like this other girl after that year but that never happened, never really liked another girl that year ( which was my junior year) now this year i like her friend, i think they are best friends still but not sure,
so i think i like that girls friend but every time i here the first girls name or see her i still feel weird, we see each other in the hall and we both look away or pretend not to see each other.

i think i loved/love this girl and dont want to but i cant get her out of my mind even if i say she is just a flirt and u fell for it.
could i like her still cus i also like her friend and dont know what to do and if i go out with her friend it would be so weird and i herd something about u never stop loving your first love is that true
i never had a gf and never felt like this

so do i still like her and have a crush on her friend or something and if yes what to do?

thanks for actually reading this i know its long but i appreciate it

oh and her friend is nothing like her she is nice and sweet and had bf b4 for longer than a week, like at least a month

will an innocent and loving girl cheat for money and to have the age gap???

Well, i’ve known my girl online for a year and half, we talked for 10 hours everyday, if not chatting then calling and msging, we loved each other much to the point that made me thinking this girl wont ever look someone’s else way, whatever he was, all i was thinking is that she dreams of me and wants to marry me and wont accept all those guys around her because of me….
So, we met at last, that was 2 months ago in a perfect date, we loved each other even more, kissed and made out and exchanged gifts… etc. From that date on she was telling me oh babe how would i meet or think about anyone other than u for my entire life!! she said that because a guy came to marry her, she refused him…

A month later, a new guy came into the scene, her parents were so much excited about him, as i thought he was perfect for her as well. One day she said to me: now im graduated, i cant refuse more guys, u must harry up, my parents wont let me alone…
A week after she said: look, this perfect guy, i’ll meet him, if he was good to me i’ll marry him!!! u cant keep deciding for me whom i want to live with and i dont, thats my own decision!! i heard that and got mad, i began to think she is going crazy, next days i knew the guy is coming, i went to his workplace and called her asking about his full name, she started to beg, no plz u gonna ruin my life! u gonna destroy me! dont talk to him, i’ll deal with it myself, i’ll get rid of him!! i believed her and returned back home that day…

Then i was waiting, hour after hour, wondering whats going on with her, at the end of that day, at 12 am she msg’ed me saying: Oh, im so sorry, im engaged to that guy!! we are perfect for each other!!!!

When i read that, i tore my clothes, shouted and cried, she did it, she talked to me that day saying that her father forced her to get engaged to that guy, and that was not her choice, said i’ll stay her friend and bla bla…
I kept like that for a couple of days, felt like hell and wanted to die, she called again i was at hospital and taking psychological treatment, my friends told her that, she told one of them that she wants to talk to me next day… that friend tried to talk to her on the next day, and guess what, her mobile phone line what out of service completely! she waited me on IM that day, she said: i wanna say 2 words to u, i never loved u, my new guy no one forced me to be engaged to him, i knew him before and loved him, but i wasnt into our relationship from the beginning, and i was just feeling sympathy for u so i didnt tell u about my new guy nor that i didnt love u that much… she said that fast and went away forever….

I called her father for the first time, he told me its too late, and i never forced her to do anything, that was her choice, she loved the guy and i dont know anything about u, so forget about it… today she called mom and shouted at her saying: get ur son away from me or my new husband will find him and put him in prison! then ended the call…

Well, i know that is one long long story, its even longer, to link all that to my question, she told me once that her guy is 27 yo, (me 20 her 21), he built his own life and no one helped him, and makes $$$ a month, thus he gives me the feel of a real man beside of me unlike u!
so, she fall in love with him for these things??? why wouldnt i ever look at another girl because she was richer or more beautiful than her??? why was she the only one to select and do the thing she felt that it will fulfill her desires?? is that age gap she looked for really that much important for women??? when she was saying: i will live with u in a cave, i dont care about money, she was lying??

but ppl, that was a pure love! how come… !
now they are married so fast, they will have sex, at that point i just want to die…
I’m thinking about revenge, if her husband knew anything about what we were doing or all that we were in, with evidence, he would break up with her immediately, this way she will lose everything, the guy she left me for wont stay with her… isnt that better, or a bit of a great punishment for what did to me??