David asks…

My Ex Girlfriend hasn’t called me back yet??

Sunday Night I spoke with my Ex-girlfriend, who told me that her and her current boyfriend just broke up but it didn’t really seem like a serious break up though,(Basically Possible that they could get back together) but anyway I asked her right then and there on the spot if she wanted to give us another chance, Meaning not neccesarily getting back together as a couple but to just start off slow

Basically going out together on a few dates and spend more time together to see how things go I asked her this sunday night and she hasn’t given me an answer yet I’ve sent her a text Message and called her twice but no response or calls, What does this mean, What should I do?? help me out.

Jason answers:

She is just stringing you along..she knows you will waite and it is just a game to her.

Joseph asks…

why hasn’t my girlfriend called me yet, she is staying with her ex?

my girlfriend is meeting up with her first ex boyfriend, they dated for 3 years and she is visiting his family including him mum (who loved her very much), her ex came to pick her up last night and she was suppose to call me once she arrives there (they live 6 hours away). But she hasn’t contacted me and i tried to call her but she never return the phone call… She told me that they are only friends, she was very close to his family, he is the her first love and he tried to have sex with her after they broke up but she refused, she was planning to stay over for 3 days… why hasn’t she contacted me? what could be happening?

Jason answers:

What you think is happening is happening.

Michael asks…

Your ex-Girlfriend has your baby and hasn’t called you to let you know how she is and if she has had the baby.

Its driving you crazy you have tried to call, (number changed) email she wont respond and even emailed family. I want to be involved in our babies life, I am trying to be there and she wont let me. I havent done anything wrong I was a great boyfriend and always there for her, she fell out of love with me. I have bought the crib, changing table and many items for the baby she took them and money too…however wont involve me now…what can I do.
Do I have rights….she is younger then I am. Still in Highschool…
her parents know me and approved of me and were okay with the pregnancy…why are they leaving me out of the loop now. Its driving me and my family crazy….5th generation alive …and I cant have anything to do with her…… *asking this question for a friend that is visiting…
Yes, I am over 18 and yes she is younger then 18.
Wasnt a problem while we were dating(with her family they knew, even invited me to live with them) I declined wanted to get a place of our own. I worry now if they would try to press charges who knows with the way they are acting?

Jason answers:

First off if you live in the same state you need to go to social services ( or whatever it is called in your state) and speak to them.
If they are no help, you need to see if you can get a lawyer Pro-bono (this usually means Free) who will represent the father. Their are organizations look them up or call the court clerk. Be persistent.
Furthermore ANY MONEY that exchanges hands for that child has to be in check or money order format. Keep a journal. Be very meticulous. Record, date , time, amount of money why the money was given IE: child support etc, clothing, medication etc.

Keep a second journal in which you record all expenditures you make upon the child’s behalf: Medical insurance, medicine, medical medical co-pays , clothing, food, travel etc. Keep meticulous records and Receipts.for both journals. Including electrical, rent phone etc. Diapers. You have rights. Hopefully u will not need a lawyer but is highly advised. Good luck.

Donna asks…

Ex girlfriend called 5 days after breaking up…?

On Friday, my ex came home from college to break up with me. I kind of new it was coming but it still hurt a lot. We haven’t spoken since then. I was at work today though, and my cell home was home, and she called me around 1:00 PM. I got home around 3:00 PM and didn’t call her back because I thought she might have dialed my number by accident. I’ve been thinking about it all day though, so I texted her, around 10:00 PM, and told her I got a missed call from her and asked why. She said she just wanted to talk, sorry. I told her why I didn’t call back and she said do whatever I want, she won’t call again, sorry. I said I wanted to talk to her too but she hasn’t texted anything since.

What’s going on here? When we broke up I said she could call me whenever she wanted, but 5 days later? Do you think there’s a chance she wants to get back together? or did I mess things up again by not calling her right back?
She’s on AIM now, do you think I should and see what she wanted to talk about?

Jason answers:

She is the one who broke up, and is obviously still troubled by it. I think if you chase her she will run away, so just leave it to her to make the first (well, second) move. If she is interested, she will do it.

If not, well I hear that the sea contains some more fish.

Chris asks…

What do I do about my boyfriend’s ex girlfriend who keeps trying to stay in touch with him?

Just a few hours ago me and my friend were having a little fire with our 2 friends and his ex girlfriend calls him. She hasn’t contacted him a few months but she does try keeping in touch bc there “childhood friends” They have known eachother since rlly little dated 2yrs ago for like 3months. They broke up because they realized they were better as friends. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2years now.
Me and my bf can tell she still likes him and it annoys me so much! When she called he said he was busy and tht he was hanging out with me and she replies “oohhhhhh” like in a prolonged disgusted way. It’s been 2yrs why is she still trying to talk to him! I’ve gotten into a fight with her before, he’s tried telling he doesn’t want to talk to her but she would just apologized. She wont leave us alone and is messing with my head! I don’t like her! And i feel like i can’t do anything bc their childhood friends so i can’t tell them they can’t talk to eachother bc they’ve known eachother since they were like 6. What do i do?!?!?!?!
my boyfriend has told her he doesn’t want to talk or see her in the past. and yes i have checked his phone, they do not talk on a regular basis. its only once in awhile SHE calls him…
I know this may not seem like a big deal but i want her to respect me and understand that there are boundries that she cannot cross. Since their old friends fine they can talk once in awhile i just don’t want her to try and make this a regular thing. She is the past and i am his future. I feel like she’s trying to break us up in a way

Jason answers:

First of all, don’t worry :) your boyfriend obviously loves you very much. He doesn’t like her and no one/ nothing can change that. He’s with you, so you don’t have to worry about whether he would leave you or not. The only reason he could possibly find for breaking up with you is if you get too jealous. And you won’t, right? You’re not gonna let that bit*h win, because i think that’s what she’s trying, to make you jealous. So… Trust your sweetheart. And if she keeps calling him, maybe you should just advise your honey to ignore a few calls (like, eight in ten :D )
and it’s very important to stay calm all the time. You will show your boyfriend you’re mature and that you trust him.
Aaand, talk to your bf and tell him (calmly :D ) how you feel, tell him you’re afraid she’s gonna get close to him again and confess you’re being a little jealous because you love him.

I mean, you two love each other. Really, don’t worry and enjoy the fact that she’s trying so hard but he’s still where he wants to be – with you.

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